If Anne Can

Being a Good Neighbour: Tina Kirwin-McGinley

My guest today, Tina Kirwin-McGinley, is a teacher of the deaf and has worked in schools in Manchester for over thirty years. She is also a swimmer, cyclist and dear friend to many.

We could talk about all of the above attributes, but I want to focus on Tina's gift for making life better for everybody by always leaving a place better than how she found it.

We talk about -

 Taking responsibility for things that are broken in the local neighbourhood; The  Planters Project

  • Noticing what is wrong 
  • Taking responsibility to make things right
  • Asking  the right questions 
  • Making things more beautiful so everyone can benefit

Being the person who notices and puts things right

  • Deciding not to turn a blind eye
  • Being persistent enough to take consistent, planned steps and follow up.
  • Making the time for a long-term commitment and persevering. 

Planning the steps to take and overcoming resistance; Playing Field Project.

  • Transforming a derelict space and seeing the potential
  • Sharing tasks amongst others and addressing concerns.
  • Persevering  
  • Creating something beautiful and attending to the details
  • The quiet satisfaction of keeping the space beautiful as a gift to others

The satisfaction of taking action with others; - Wombling

  • The choice to be the person who makes the neighbourhood a better place to live 
  • Why don't people help?
  • Being active and noticing things
  • Make your voice heard and ask why.

Civic responsibility and pride in where people live, work, and travel

  • Whose responsibility is it to fix things?
  • What steps can individuals take?
  • Improving things for others and yourself


Directing energy into something that might make a positive difference for everybody

  • The importance of planning the next steps
  • Mapping a course of direction
  • Nurturing of community and friendship
  • The importance of loyalty and long-term engagement
  • Being patient


References:
The book I gave to Tina was Ikigai, The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life: Hector Garcia and Francesc Mirales